Twinsouls and Soulmates
We all have one Main Spirit guide and several help guides. My Main Guide's name is Ben. I do a lot of automatic writing with him. And this is what he told me about Twin Souls and Soul mates.
The purpose of a Twinsoul relationship
'The purpose of a Twinsoul relationship is that they have and want to accomplished something together on Earth. It could have been done alone but the presence of the other makes things much more purposeful, grandeur, and more effective by the united strength and energy. Twin Souls are engaged in activities that will serve humanity in any shape or form, big or small. People with a Soulmate relationships feel this too, although this is different from Twin relationships.
This often occurs in the form of Soul relationships as well, and is completely different from Twin Souls. Soulmate relationships could be two people who bundle their talents on Earth. They might be very good friends, could be born in the same family or are work colleagues. That doesn't make them Twin Souls. They are definitely soul related and there will be recognition and a sense of unity in certain areas.
Twin Souls experience the similarities on every level of their lives, spiritually and physically. It might be that Twinsouls have experienced similar events in their lives prior to their first meeting, although that's not a necessity. It differs from every twin pair. A major feature of Twin Souls is that you will be asked to act as your pure Self when you face the other for the first time. Your pure Self from when you were born with all your power and without ego. You might think it's easy to be myself. Believe me it's not.
Being yourself means to be brave enough to figuratively stand bare naked in front of the other. When I met my Twinsoul for the first time, I tried to play a certain role. A role that I was used to play because I thought it showed my best angle. But I could toss that tactic right out the door with my twin soul. I could not, nor was I allowed to take on a role. That was somehow unacceptable. It wouldn't have worked even if I tried. I had to show who I was and what my soul looks like. That was terrifying. Exposing yourself is not something you just do. Yet, it is what is expected of you.
Show your true colours
You must show yourself to the other person in your purest form. It makes you vulnerable but at the same time it becomes your greatest strength, without any binary or trying to portray yourself better than you really are. You need to leave your ego behind and show your true colours. So be vulnerable, it's your greatest asset. If you are bold enough to get past the fear, you will feel liberated and wonder why you have been afraid all this time. You will be more yourself than you've ever been.
In a Twin relationship, you will gratefully embrace each other and be welcomed as you're naked self. The latter is the most common reason. Our desire to meet the ultimate other can make us desperate. We assume the other is our Twin soul so what actually happens is that one's own desire is projected to an individual who is not the Twinsoul, with all the sad consequences. You are basically saddling the other person with a responsibility he or she will never be able to live up.
What you really feel is a sort of soul recognition. This doesn't automatically result in a physical and loving relationship. You might have met the person for a completely different reason. We should not forget that this kind of spirit should not be underestimated, because it can profoundly anchor itself deep within our soul.
Just remember that when the person you love does not answers those same feelings and doesn't accept you as you are, he or she is not your Twin soul. There is complete acceptance and trust between Twinsouls without the need to own the other person. There aren't any ego games played out of fear. It would not benefit your matured soul at he moment you meet your Twinsoul to play games. If your soul has grown enough to meet your Twinsoul, that desire to pretend has disappeared.
A task on Earth
Naturally, there will be fights at times. After all, you are both human beings with your own personalities and there can be friction but, after an argument, the sky clears up again and you continue with your collective purpose on Earth. There won't be any lingering hard feelings, no irritations, hidden agendas, or unspoken and negative smoldering feelings that could destroy the relationship. There is just not enough time for that because the common purpose on earth needs to be designed and executed. There is no desire to shove of responsibilities to the other. You will learn to carry these responsibilities together.
Obviously there are Souls who, after meeting a Twinsoul, become anxious after they suddenly felt the overwhelming feelings flowing in their hearts. If you have never experienced anything like it before, you can seriously start doubting yourself and wonder whether what you are feeling is true.
Life on Earth is very short no matter how old you become. When Twinsouls meet, it is the intention that they will start their mutual task on earth as soon as possible shortly after they have met. There is no time to be wasted. The universe would not allowe this.
Another feature prior to the meeting with your Twinsoul is the ability to be on your own. Feelings of despair mean that you don't have any faith in the course of your life, or you hope that someone else will rescue you from the clutches of loneliness. Make sure you feel good on your own and that you are independent enough to live life on your own. In this way, you are preparing yourself for living with someone else in your near future.'
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