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Why consult a psychic or medium?

  • If you seek comfort in your grieving process. This can be a grieving process when your heart is broken or you have lost your job, your relationship is over, a divorce or if someone you love died. If you want contact with a deceased loved one, you consult a medium. A medium is someone who can connect with spirits but also look into your past, your present and your future. A psychic can not make contact with deceased loved ones. He or she can look into your past, present or future. All mediums are also psychic but not all psychics are mediums.
  • To hear who your spirit guides are, they will share what they want to tell you and that you are aware that you are never alone.
  • To hear how you can make contact with your own spiritual guides, guardian angels.
  • If you want insight about yourself.
  • Why you respond in a certain way to certain people and situations and how you can change that so that other people do not determine how you feel.
  • If you want to know what kind of opportunities are coming your way and how you can prepare so that you get the most benefit from an opportunity.
  • If you want to know if you are on the right track.
  • If you want confirmation about your own feelings, your own intuition.
  • To become aware of your blind spots and how you can turn them around into positive traits.
  • To be warned about dangerous situations or people who are dishonest and not trustworthy.
  • To receive guidance, tips and tools when you have the feeling you are stuck.
  • To receive clarity and insight about the lessons you are learning at this moment.
  • To hear why you have met a certain person, maybe you share past lives together and he or she can be a soul mate.
  • To receive insight about your fears and doubts, if they are true or false and how to relax more and get a grip on your doubts and fears.
  • Learn how to let go.

Why you should not consult a psychic or medium too often

It is important that you trust or learn how to trust your own intuition. If you feel you need to consult a psychic or medium on every little decision, it means that you do not trust your own gut feeling. You can get lost in the feeling that you need a psychic or medium reading on everything you want to do or with every decision you have to make. In other words; you have lost control over your life in terms of mistrusting your own instinct, your own intuition. It is important to know that no matter what a psychic medium tells you; your own inner voice is the most important one. What a psychic medium says must resonate in you. Always listen to your own guiding system. Do not become dependent on others to tell you how to live your life.

Your own guiding system

What you can do is to learn to rely on your own intuition again with small decisions. Make a list of questions you want to ask a psychic or medium and see if there are any questions you can answer yourself. I advice people to consult me no more than two times a year max. Because if you want a psychic reading more often you will notice that you get the same answers every time you call or visit a psychic medium. Make a list of questions during a couple of months and see which questions you really need to ask a psychic medium and which questions solved itself or you found the anwer on your own. Do not become dependent on a psychic, psychic readings or medium reading and realize that you have your own guiding system.

Meditating can be of great help to connect with your own intuition again. I offer a free meditation.

 

Blessings,

Barbara